... do you feel with me? All of you who build up a network from scratch, who are outsiders and try to get a grip on an established community with established alliances, those who are autodidact may be with me... the biestmilch story is a story of this kind.
Networking for me is communicating with intentions, with ulterior motives, with a goal ahead... which again for me means to build up trust and reliability and this is much more than just talking or gossiping and it is much more than twitter. It may be a tiresome and risky job to do. There is nothing definite that may predict whether you succeed in connecting or not, you have to take the risk... no guarantees at all. For those who are born into an established network my words may sound strange. For them things are easy going, self-evident... but this is not at all the case for those beyond the borderlines of established networks/communities.
It is first of all continuity and a strategic approach to communication which is needed that a network may emerge at the end of the day, and this I think is not so much build into us human creatures. We prefer twitter...
Author Barbara Ehrenreich writes about personal networking in the latest issue of Forbes magazine (link--free
with registration). She comes to the completely unsurprising conclusion
that for most people networking is difficult and unpleasant.
On futurlab you find a comment on this issue which might be of interest for those who feel like loosing grounds, loosing themselves by getting entangled with the nodes of the network they try to intrude...
Is networking really natural thing for us to do? Yes and no... ;-), what do you think?
